I can’t believe I am about to say this…but…I might have actually taken a very deep learning point away from a cheesy reality show yesterday afternoon. While watching one of the many Real Housewives sagas, I observed an older couple visiting a cemetery monument store, where they picked out the headstone for the woman’s recently deceased parents. Both parents died within the prior seven months and during the headstone selection process, the woman talked about hoping she would have another twenty years with her own husband.
I sat and processed the moment. I reflected on my own life. Most people are living as if they have unlimited time left on this earth. Time to be with the ones they love, which usually results in taking people for granted. A lot of people (myself most definitely included) put off major changes they want to make because we feel as if we can tackle certain issues tomorrow, or the next day, or the next year. I don’t think I am alone in that but the mere fact that I acknowledge it allows for improvement. Also, days drift along and we are all sometimes guilty of wanting time to rush by, in order to get closer to a vacation or a promotion. Sitting here writing, I realize how precious time is. My most recent reminder came from my neighbor Mark’s cancer battle. Although he was initially told he wouldn’t live past Christmas of 2018, he is still above ground and fighting. He is self-admittedly living day by day and I truly believe there is a lot to be learned from that style of appreciation for our loved ones, our experiences and our beautiful planet.
As the woman on the RHOP (Potomac series, the true Real Housewives fans get it) said about her own relationship, I too have the same recurring thought from time to time about having my spouse around for the remainder of my life. Hugo is the most wonderful person I know and love and I sincerely hope that we have at least fifty years or more left together on this crazy planet. I can’t imagine what life would be like without him so he better be there to keep me centered ♥